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About OurLove365

We can all feel overwhelmed by life's demands and struggle to maintain a strong connection with our partner.


OurLove365 App is here to help. We believe that consistency, transparency, and intentionality is what every relationship deserves to flourish and grow. OurLove365 app is designed to be your personal relationship story builder, one day at a time. This is your tool to build a stronger, more meaningful bond with your loved one.


What OURLOVE365 will allow you both to do:

  • Consistently connect and build each other up
  • Transparently prioritize your needs, your special times, and times of growth   
  • Intentionally deepen and transform your relationship
  • Build your story and your love bank one action at a time, one day a time!

Your Love
Your Story

The Science of Sustainability and OurLove365: Consistent, Transparent, and Intentional Action

OurLove365 is built on the scientific understanding that sustained relational well-being is not achieved through grand gestures alone, but through the cumulative effect of consistent, transparent, and intentional daily and weekly actions.


Consistency: Regular engagement in positive behaviors ensures the ongoing release and reinforcement of these beneficial neurochemicals, preventing emotional drift and maintaining a strong connection.


Transparency: Open communication and the clear expression of intentions behind actions further strengthen trust and understanding, optimizing the positive impact of these neurochemical processes.


Intentionality: Consciously choosing to engage in acts of kindness and connection ensures that these behaviors are meaningful and impactful, maximizing their neurochemical benefits for both partners.


By providing tools and prompts that facilitate and document these consistent, transparent, and intentional actions, OurLove365 empowers couples to actively cultivate the neurochemical foundations of a thriving and enduring love. It's not just about documenting actions; it's about understanding and harnessing the inherent chemistry of human connection to build your own unique love story.


To building your love story! To long-lasting love!


Impacting your Village

As humans we positively and negatively affect our families, our friends, our neighbors, and ultimately our kids.  By implementing OurLove365 App into your relationship, you will document and build a positive legacy you can proudly and factly share with loved ones.

Your Unique Love Story

Investing in your love is central to your thriving relationship

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C-Time

  • Consistently plan your week Intentionally schedule your weekly special time(s) and know what is going on every week.
  • Transparently review your finances and know where you stand financially by intentionally discussing weekly.
  • Intentionally Strengthen each other consistently highlighting and documenting your acts of love and kindness goes far!

C-Time Continued

  • Transparently meet each other's needs by meeting 1 need at a time.
  • Consistently practice wellness and calming by meditating, praying, stretching, chanting, walking, kissing, loving, or whatever rocks your boat, do it!
  • Weekly build your love story in real time; your C-Time lays the foundation for documenting and building your love story over time!

Growth Time

  • Transparently and predictably address issues through our protocol to hear each other out and validate each other.
  • Consistency in addressing issues builds trust and strengthens bonds.
  • Intentionally improve your conflict resolution process and reflect in real time during and after a Growth Time.
  • Avoid miscommunication and unnecessary drama.


Love Bank

  • Document all the good stuff! Lead the way with making love deposits!
  • Share the love! Explicitly and intentionally share your top 3 most encouraging deposits from your spouse at your C-Time.
  • Add the visuals! It is all about the selfies of all the good times!
  • Build your unique love story! Read, see, and hear your love in action!
  • Imagine having a clear love story board after 26 weeks or all 52 weeks of your year, your pace! Your love story!

THIS IS YOUR LOVE BANK!


Wellness

Intentional wellness

Whether it is together closing your C-Times, or your alone journaling and reflecting, or any other way.

BE WELL TOGETHER!

Our Village

It takes a village to stay in love!

Your family, your besties, your neighbors, your coworkers, close friends, distant friends, they all play a part in your story! Some more and better than others.

Be intentional and nurture your village together!

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The Love Science

Beyond just falling in love...

Unlike what you may have heard, long-lasting love does not happen, you must make it happen. The good news: You can make this happen! With the right tool, OurLove365 App!


Let’s put our love neuroscientists’ hats on!


OurLove365 isn't just an app; it's a scientifically-backed platform designed to cultivate and sustain deep, meaningful connections through the documenting of your consistent, transparent, and intentional daily and weekly acts. The foundation of our approach lies in understanding the intricate neurochemical processes that underpin love, trust, and well-being within relationships. Most of us rarely think about our third heaviest organ, our brain, but the action happening in that 3-5 pounds of mush is incredible and OurLove365 is here to help you train it to BUILD YOUR LOVE STORY!



Consistency & Oxytocin

At the heart of OurLove365 is the idea of leveraging the power of oxytocin, often referred to as the "love hormone." This neuropeptide plays a crucial role in the formation of social bonds and the development of trust between individuals. Research indicates that oxytocin is released during moments of physical intimacy and is associated with increased feelings of trust, generosity, and friendliness, while simultaneously contributing to lower blood pressure.


OurLove365 app easily facilitates and documents the regular engagement in activities known to stimulate oxytocin release. By encouraging consistent acts of kindness, expressions of appreciation, and shared positive experiences, OurLove365 aims to create a positive feedback loop, strengthening the emotional connection and fostering a deeper sense of intimacy between partners.



Transparency & Dopamine

But there is more… Beyond oxytocin, OurLove365 recognizes the significant role of dopamine, a key neurotransmitter in the brain's reward system. Studies have shown that even seemingly small, random acts of kindness can trigger the release of dopamine, leading to feelings of pleasure and euphoria – often described as the "helper's high."


By prompting couples to engage in both planned and spontaneous acts of love, care and consideration, OurLove365 helps to activate this dopamine pathway. This not only enhances the well-being of the receiver but also reinforces the positive feelings and motivation of the giver, creating a virtuous cycle of relational reinforcement.


Intentionality & Serotonin

And more… OurLove365 acknowledges the importance of serotonin, a neurotransmitter vital for mood regulation. Engaging in intentional kind and considerate behaviors has been linked to increased serotonin levels, contributing to a greater sense of calm, stability, and overall emotional well-being for both individuals in the relationship.


By encouraging consistent positive interactions and thoughtful gestures, OurLove365 aims to foster an environment of emotional harmony, reducing stress and promoting a more positive and supportive relational dynamic.



What people say

Jennifer P

"I wish somebody would have walked me through this since day 1 in our marriage!"

Logan S

"This has completely changed our marriage!"

Rudolph G

"After 27 years, you can still teach and old dog new tricks! In all seriousness, this gave me all the tools to rekindle our love"

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